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Writer's pictureNatalia Lakes

Guide to Living Life on Purpose


At the beginning of our journey everything seems like sunshine and rainbows. You wake up each morning with a spring in your step, ready to conquer the world. But alas, childhood is but a fleeting dream. Soon, reality comes crashing down like a ton of bricks, and you find yourself knee-deep in the murky waters of responsibilities and obligations.


As the days turn into weeks and the weeks into months, life throws its first curveball: monotony. The once-exciting tasks now feel as thrilling as watching paint dry. Your enthusiasm wanes, replaced by a sense of resigned acceptance. You find yourself questioning the very fabric of existence as you mindlessly shuffle through the motions of daily life.


Ah, adulthood, that magical land where bills magically appear out of thin air, responsibilities multiply like rabbits, and weekends become a distant memory. The weight of adulting can crush even the most resilient of spirits, leaving behind a shell of the person you once were. Gone are the days of carefree abandon, replaced instead by endless to-do lists and existential dread.


 In this age of social media, comparison is the thief of joy, and nowhere is this more evident than in the soul-sucking game of keeping up with the Joneses. As you scroll through your feed, you can't help but feel a pang of envy at the seemingly perfect lives of others. Your enthusiasm dwindles as you compare your own messy existence to the curated perfection of those around you.


 Life has a wicked sense of humor, often dangling the carrot of success just out of reach. You set lofty goals and dreams, only to have them dashed by the cruel hand of fate. The gap between expectation and reality widens, leaving you feeling disillusioned and defeated. You begin to wonder if it's even worth trying anymore.


Yes, it is. Instead of passively moving through life, approach each moment with a sense of curiosity, eager to learn, to grow, and to be inspired. Whether it is exploring a new hobby, immersing yourself in a different culture, or engaging in meaningful conversations with others, curiosity fuels your enthusiasm and propels you forward on your journey of self-discovery.


Living with enthusiasm is a choice—a choice to embrace life in all its complexity. It is a commitment to living authentically, passionately, and purposefully, guided by the belief that each moment is an opportunity to create, to inspire, and to make a difference in the world. As you embark on this journey of living with enthusiasm, embrace the beauty of the human experience, the power of your own potential.


Here is your  Guide to Living Life on Purpose:


1. Embrace Your Quirks


Life's too short to take seriously, especially your quirks! Whether you're obsessed with collecting vintage tea cups or have a knack for memorizing useless trivia, own it with pride. Deliberate enthusiasm means embracing every oddity like a badge of honor. So, dust off that weird hobby and flaunt it like a peacock in a room full of pigeons!


2. Say Yes... Within Reason


Opportunities are like shiny candies waiting to be devoured, but don't get a sugar rush and say yes to everything! Deliberate enthusiasm means being discerning with your yeses. Ask yourself, "Will this opportunity light a fire in my belly or just add unnecessary kindling?" If it doesn't spark joy, politely decline and save your enthusiasm for something worth the hype.


3.  Dance Like Everyone's Watching (Even When They're Not)


Life's a dance floor, and you're the star of the show! So what if your moves resemble a confused octopus? Deliberate enthusiasm means grooving to your own beat, even if you're the only one clapping.


4. Master the Art of "Oops"


Life's full of slip-ups, spills, and unexpected plot twists. Instead of stressing over spilled milk, embrace the art of "Oops!" Deliberate enthusiasm means turning mishaps into memorable anecdotes. Did you accidentally superglue your fingers together? Congratulations, you now have a gripping tale for your next cocktail party!


5. Surround Yourself with Sunshine


Life's too short to spend it with Debbie Downers and Negative Nancys. Deliberate enthusiasm thrives in the company of sunshine souls who radiate positivity like it's their full-time job. Surround yourself with people who lift you higher, inspire contagious laughter, and sprinkle confetti on your dreams.


6. Seize the Awkward


Awkward moments are like uninvited guests at a party—they're inevitable. Deliberate enthusiasm means greeting these cringe-worthy encounters with open arms. Embrace the awkwardness like a long-lost friend and laugh it off. Life's too short to let embarrassment steal the spotlight!


7. Practice Gratitude with Gusto


Gratitude isn't just a polite gesture; it's a powerhouse for cultivating joy. Deliberate enthusiasm means practicing gratitude with the enthusiasm of a kid in a candy store. Start a gratitude journal, shout out thank-yous like you're accepting an Oscar, and savor every moment like it's the last slice of pizza at a party.


8. Dream Big, Act Bold


Life's a grand adventure waiting to be explored. Deliberate enthusiasm means dreaming big and taking bold action. Whether you're pursuing a passion project or chasing a wild dream, do it with the gusto. Remember, the sky's not the limit when there are footprints on the moon!


9. Celebrate Every Victory


Every victory deserves a standing ovation. Deliberate enthusiasm means celebrating even the smallest wins like they're grand achievements. So, pop the sparkling apple cider and toast to your triumphs, big and small!


10. Keep Calm and Enthusiasm On


Life's a rollercoaster of highs, lows, and loop-de-loops. But with deliberate enthusiasm as your trusty sidekick, you're equipped to ride the waves with grace, humor, and unbridled zeal. So, keep calm, enthusiasm on, and remember: life's an adventure best lived with a twinkle in your eye and a skip in your step!

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